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Our deepest drive isn’t survival — it’s togetherness. In this clip, Dr. Gordon Neufeld explains emotion as Nature’s way of taking care of our most basic need: attachment. When something goes wrong, our first impulse is to seek our people — Where’s mom? Where’s dad? Where’s my family? — even if it means moving toward danger rather than away from it. Emotion, in his words, serves attachment. It rises most strongly when separation is faced and works to close the gap between us. When we see behaviou
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“Attachment really is the science of relationship, and we're all in relationship. Every particle in the universe is in relationship. The brain is made up of neurons that are attached. There's no life outside of attachment. So some people think it is simply an idea. No, attachment is the relationship of everything and the science of it. The absolutely exciting discovery was when science assumed it was our survival, that was the basic drive, only to find that in mammals it is not survival. It is a
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Join leading expert in attachment, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, at our spring conference as he walks us through The Dance of Attachment which explores the pivotal role attachment plays in our everyday lives, and how we can support our children in building strong, secure relationships. | Institute of Child Psychology
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Gordon Neufeld on Sibling Rivalry: Sibling rivalry is a very common problem. By treating our children as equals, we think we’re doing them a favor, but the attachment processes don’t work this way. If you help matchmake one to be the answer to the other, they move to take care of each other, to help each other, rather than compete with each other. And if we got those kinds of things right, we would have much less problems with sibling conflict and rivalry. Find courses and free resources from Go
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How to Build Attachment When a Child Joins a New Family In the video, Neufeld Institute Faculty Bree Jordan reflects on a common experience for adults who find themselves caring for a child not born to them. As she notes, our role gives us responsibilities, but not the power to guide. That power comes from relationship. A child can be invited into a home without yet feeling at home—without feeling they matter, belong, or are truly wanted. This is the heart of our course 'Transplanting Children.'
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Why do teenagers pull away — and how do we tell the difference between healthy independence and something that puts development at risk? This is the dynamic Dr. Gordon Neufeld unfolds together with Dr. Gabor Maté in their book Hold On to Your Kids. For a deeper unfolding of this topic, Dr. Gordon Neufeld explores it fully in his course Making Sense of Adolescence. Adolescents are in the in-between: no longer children, not yet adults. They need us — yet often resist us. The course explores the se
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